Dating a cocky guy
If you are a buff guy, you'll have more success focusing on generating short-term relationships than you will LTRs.in a competitive environment like a club, the scrawny guys wont find their LTR because she sucks dick of the big/attractive guy. in the end it has several advantages to gain some muscle. However i can't help but notice that the more buff and shredded i get that harder it became to get a notches.Yes, there's a lot to be said for being a confident, attractive man.There's also a lot to be said for being a self righteous, self obsessed, vain arsehole.
Being very cocky and arrogant for real is not something that most people can vibe with, which is why most women will close off to you and even reject you if you’re approach is too cocky.
Several of those studies (here in full is the most detailed one of them all, btw) also showed that women tend to identify men with exaggerated secondary sex characteristics (most notably, muscularity) as less likely to commit or make ideal long term partners.
It appears as though they mentally slot such men into the "short term" category early on, which means that if you are looking for an LTR, high muscularity can actually work against you.
I suspect that just how much it works against you could vary with the girl's ethnicity, class and/or culture, but that's a study for another day. Women have an easier time rationalizing short-term flings when it comes to muscular men, which makes sense given our knowledge of how their hamsters tend to work.
The rationalization probably goes something like this: "It's ok if he doesn't call me back or if this is just for one night, muscular guys like him don't date and make bad boyfriends anyway".
Men, I'd just like to say for the record, that we love you. Now for the ones that you shouldn't touch with a foot long barge pole. Yes, he's probably well endowed and yes, he'll probably show you, without being asked. You can sense his massive ego from six streets away. Cheaters will never change and anyone who tries to convince you otherwise is just in denial/ is already in someone else's pants. Until pf course, woman after woman with general good sense and cop on, tells him to get lost.